In this week’s episode, Steve sits down with Jeff “Bones” Bonner, Harvard-trained performance strategist, former combat fighter pilot and squadron commander, current airline captain, and author of The Daily Debrief™, for a conversation about human performance, continuous improvement, and why experience alone isn’t enough to help us grow.
Drawing on his experience in military aviation and other high-performance environments, Jeff shares a principle that has shaped his approach to growth. He explains how a simple, structured debrief can help us learn from both our successes and mistakes, build confidence, and prepare to perform better the next time around.
The conversation also explores why we tend to reflect only when something goes wrong, how the fear of making mistakes can hold us back, and what high-performing teams understand about learning from failure. Jeff shares his five-minute Daily Debrief habit, explains why consistency matters more than getting it perfect, and details how leaders can create cultures where people are encouraged to learn without repeating the same mistakes.
In this episode, you’ll hear about:
- Why experience alone doesn’t guarantee improvement
- How reflection and intentional adjustment build confidence and performance
- How high-performing teams create environments where people can fail, learn, and improve
- How a simple five-minute daily habit can support continuous growth
Listen now and ask yourself: Where could you make a mistake today that helps you avoid repeating it tomorrow?
About the guest:
Jeff “Bones” Bonner is a keynote speaker on human performance and the author of The Daily Debrief™. A Harvard-trained performance strategist, former combat fighter pilot and squadron commander, and current airline captain, Jeff works with leaders and teams to build systems for continuous improvement.
He is the creator of The Debrief Advantage™, a principle-centered system that turns everyday experience into measurable progress. His work is built on a simple idea: experience alone does not create improvement, reflection followed by adjustment does.
His book, The Daily Debrief™, teaches the foundational habit behind the system, helping individuals build a daily practice of reflection and improvement. A revised edition is set to release soon.
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffbonesbonner/
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