A lot of high-performers know how to win, but far fewer know how to use failure well. And when life gets uncomfortable, the instinct is often to avoid it, rush past it, or pretend it didn’t mean anything.
My guest today, Leanda Cave, is a four-time world champion triathlete who’s lived through elite success, personal setbacks, major transition, and a powerful season of self-discovery beyond sport.
In this episode, you’ll hear how failure can become one of the greatest forces for growth, why awareness changes everything, and how to redefine high performance in a way that actually serves your life long term.
We talk about setbacks, discomfort, relationships, identity, longevity, purpose, and what it looks like to keep evolving when your next chapter asks something different from you.
-Why being growth ready means being prepared to fail
-How failure can become a gateway instead of a stopping point
-The difference between winning the race and winning the journey
-Why comfort can quietly block growth
-Learning through relationships, patterns, and self-awareness
-The role of awareness in transformation
-Reframing high performance as longevity
-Health as a long-term leadership strategy
-Purpose, philanthropy, and life after elite sport
-Building a meaningful next chapter beyond one identity or lane
Links and resources mentioned
-Instagram: @leandacave
-Instagram: @leandacavecoaching
-Best Buddies
-TEDx talk: Failure Is the Force That Shapes You
-Leanda website: www.leandacave.com
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00:00 PREPARED TO FAIL (Failure as the benchmark)
00:20 MAKE YOU THE PRIORITY
00:35 WELCOME TO GROWTHREADY
01:15 WHY DEFINING FAILURE MATTERS
03:34 WHAT IT MEANS TO BE GROWTHREADY
04:18 WHY SUCCESS DIDN’T CREATE GROWTH
05:50 DISCOMFORT IS THE SIGNAL
07:23 HOW LEANDA DEFINES FAILURE
10:01 FAILURE AS A GATEWAY
11:26 NO REGRETS + NO “WHAT IFS”
12:26 SPORT ↔ CORPORATE RELATABILITY
15:33 THE BEAUTY IN NOTHING
16:58 COMFORT VS GROWTH
18:24 THE PATH OF LEAST RESISTANCE
21:22 EARNED LOVE + PERFORMANCE IDENTITY
24:13 AWARENESS CHANGES EVERYTHING
26:33 TRANSFORMATION + SELF-WORK
28:35 RELATIONSHIPS AS THE CATALYST
30:26 HEALTHY SELFISHNESS
31:46 LIFE AFTER THE “ONE LANE”
33:24 REDEFINING HIGH PERFORMANCE
34:40 HIGH PERFORMANCE = LONGEVITY
36:39 TRAINING NOW: REWINDING THE CLOCK
39:12 “I’M TRAINING TO LIVE FOREVER”
40:52 HEALTH AS A LEADERSHIP STRATEGY
42:27 PURPOSE + PHILANTHROPY (BEST BUDDIES)
43:45 TEDx: FAILURE IS THE FORCE THAT SHAPES YOU
46:20 GET COMFORTABLE BEING UNCOMFORTABLE
47:06 FINAL REFLECTIONS + WHERE TO FIND LEANDA
49:49 CLOSING + SUPPORT THE SHOW